“I was engaged to a superstar,” she tells the host of “Iyanla: Fix My Life.” “Our relationship was phenomenal, but then he changed. He was doing a lot of sneaky things behind my back.”
“I’m angry because I want our black men to value us, and they don’t.”
But the biggest problem she had with Ross?
“Being naive. Listening to anything I was being told.”
“Do you know how you learned that Miss Lira,” Vanzant responds. “I want to say something to you – and I’m not saying it to be disrespectful – you learned to do that on the pole.”
“OK that’s shocking,” Wanda Smith remarked, recalling when the couple visited the show last year. “It was like a match made in heaven. Like he seemed like he was so in love with her…Even the glow in his eyes was so big for her. But then, what happened?!”
Guess we’ll all find out as the next episode airs on OWN Sept. 17.